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Category: Book Tour + Reviews!

Posted on February 12, 2018

Review: Among the Reads

Posted on February 1, 2018March 27, 2018

Blog Tour!

I am so excited to share with you so many amazing young women who are joining with me on this Book + Blog Tour! Stay tuned each day for their stories, testimonies and reviews of my brand new book Savoring Single! Now Available on Amazon and Barnes and Noble.

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Posted on January 8, 2018February 12, 2018

Interview + Review

Head on over to All Things Allison Marie for an interview with me and her review of “Savoring Single.”

It’s Part One of her series on singleness and I am honored to be featured!

More to come on next month’s Blog Tour! For more info + to sign up, Click Here.

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A. I know tons of you won't even see this because all things algorithms and I haven't posted in over a month. B. I am still on my media fast and it has been A-MAZING!!! I'm 37 days into the 100 and I've read half my Bible + 3 books, even written one (yes!!! way cool), started a new woodworking hobby, gone keto + dropping grains and dairy! It's not that I spent THAT much time on IG + FB, but it certainly dulled my inspiration and I'm so so so glad to have it back. Anywho! I wanted to cheat and pop on to bless some of you girlies on my birthday. 🎉 Simply comment your FAVE thing about your birthday!🎉 I'll randomly pick 5 of you - send you a free signed copy of my book SAVORING SINGLE + a little surprise happy. And if you already have it, no worries, it'll make a great birthday gift for someone special in your life 💛. I'll pop back on at 8 am tomorrow to "pick a number" x5 and announce the winners. I'll DM my email address to get your contact info. Then back in hibernation for 62 more days! It's been so good! Girl, you gotta try it! Love you girls! Happy commenting! And HAPPY BIRTHDAY to me! Oh, it's gonna be a good year! 🌼
During our fast in January I felt the Lord impress upon my heart that I would carry the fire of His love to a generation. . The promise lies before us to draw us into the greater things He has in store. . The enemy, however, distorts our God-given promise with lies, fear, shame and deep insecurity. It's his only ability, the ability to deceive, to distort truth. . And I have believed the lies. Too many to name and more yet unrealized. . However, His promise remains true. Tonight I was reminded. Oh, but for the grace of God that chases us down, pursues us, and overtakes us. . I have lived in fear of time spent alone. I stay busy, distracted, entertained. I serve, go, do, and stretch thin to avoid being alone. . Tonight God revealed to me the stubbornness in my heart over this precious time. . The enemy made me afraid of my aloneness because it was intended to be consecrated. . So in response, I am committing to 100 days of #simpledevotion. I am turning off tv and signing out of social media. A relaunch. A fresh start. To be just the beginning of so much more. But it starts here. . Instead I am instilling the daily disciplines of pursuing Christ. Seeking Him first. The powerful Matthew 6:33 that has been my anthem this year. Yes, so used it seems common. But it's not. It's red letters and we'll never fully unfold His manifold wisdom in this age. . So I pursue so that I can see the promises of God fulfilled. So I'll stop putting off today for tomorrow and hoping for things that have already been promised and are waiting on nothing but simple obedience. . I've waited my whole life for a grand encounter, not realizing I was missing far more by neglecting the simple things that matter more than all the rest combined. Read "Simple Devotion." <swipe> Put it at the top of your list and read it now. For real. Like, yes. Amazon now. 😊 . Come November my life will look very different. I don't know what all is to come, but because He carries me, it will be good. . In this with you girl, but I am nothing more than Him in me to have anything to offer you. He is the sum total of all you need. Pursue Him. Today. Forever. Shelley See ya in November. 💛💛💛
Bitter into sweet. Like lemons to lemonade with the moving, flowing, washing of His Spirit and the sweetness of His name. "Your name is like honey on my lips. Your Spirit like water to my soul. Your Word is a lamp unto my feet. Jesus, I love you." 🎶 MercyMe I remember watching my brother-in-law give my niece a slice of lemon when she was a baby. Her face soured and she drew back from that lemon so quick. It was adorable in the way babies are. When life gives us lemons we often withdrawal. We pull back expecting it's God's punishment, rejection or "just life." Then we build safe guards to keep from experiencing the taste of bitterness, however it came, ever again. Sound familiar at all? But the good news is that He turns the bitter into sweet. (also a great song by Amanda Cook) He takes what was bad and turns it for good. Whether it was our own stupid mistake, life, the devil, or even His correcting as a good Father and turns it sweet. Without the aftertaste or stain of grief. If life seems bitter, don't pull away. Instead, press into the Presence of God and pursue Christ even more. This is how living water will pour through your sour spot and bring life back again. The name of Jesus hold so much more than we could ever comprehend, even honey to heal, sweeten and mend. 🍋☀🍯 #savoringsingle
"What we see is intricately connected to how we think, feel, and learn." Eric Jensen So what do you see when you watch shows like Married at first Sight The Proposal The Bachelor The Bachelorette + Love Connection? Because what we see does impact us. It's not just mindless entertainment to fill the background as we scroll through IG and snapchat, or something fun to gossip about between classes. Instant relationships, "love"at first sight, and long term love on the foundation of short term pleasure all lead down the same road. Look deeper. Where's this road really going to take you? Where's it taking them? Is there a better way? If so, where do you find it? Like for real. I'm not asking for me, I'm asking for you. #introspection In this with ya girl, Shelley #savoringsingle
Cheap shots bid low. Don't sell your confidence short by placing it on the market for comparison, judgement, and jealousy. Instead, let your confidence be... Left unnoticed by the wandering eye of comparison. Left untouched by the weighted scales of judgement. Left unimpacted by the waftting waves of jealousy. Left unmoved by the inner pull to hide for fear of being measured. Our confidence, unbroken, when our eyes are locked on His. For when we walk in a room, His attention we hold, for He was with us even before we opened the door. And when we are with Him, no other opinion matters. So take your confidence off the market, He's already won it on your behalf. #savoringsingle
To be honest, I struggle with the feeling that I am behind in life, a lot. Behind because I'm not married. Behind because I haven't finished college. Behind because I haven't started the businesses I've dreamed, memorized scripture like I want, saved money like I should have or backpacked New Zealand (been at the top of my bucket list since I was 10). Behind. It makes me embarrassed when I have to fill out yet another job application, defeated when I don't have the funds to start something new and plain terrible when I mention a scripture and by now should know where it's found. Is it too late? To late to save? To learn Spanish? To plan a crazy awesome trip without someone to go with? To late to begin again? Get yet another job? Or to go all in on a new venture that may crash and burn or be wildly successful? It feels too late. Most times. But feelings lie. And if I listen to them, I'll never do the very things I've always wanted to do, that I just haven't done yet. Jesus tells us a parable of workers hired early in the day, midday, and near the closing bell. They all got paid the same amount. I know, crazy. (Matthew 20) I can't say the early worker got a bad deal. He got the experience I wish I had, the time pounding the ground that makes me feel disqualified because I lack. I feel late to the game. Last one called before the bell rings. In, but late. Working, but still figuring it out long after I should have mastered it. But the Father, in His kindness and grace, shows me that so long as I start, I won't be left out. That my "yes" now counts just as much as if I had said it then. So if you're waiting to start because you feel behind, you're not. It's never too late to start unless you never do. Begin today. #savoringsingle

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